And this is the time of the year when consumerism is at its all-time high! Not that we mind a lot. After all, how can one fulfill the noble Christmas spirit of giving when there is no buying in the first place? Sure, sure, one can always give "intangibles" or practical gifts like what those magazines always feature (read: recycle) in their annual holiday issues - give the gift of time, the gift of your creativity, the gift of love. Nothing wrong with that really, except (for me at least), these "practical" options should be circulated among us year-round, and not just within the closest of kins and friends, but to as many people as possible.As I age, I would always wonder where have all those "magical Christmas morning" feelings I had as a child gone? Those past Christmas mornings when I woke up and I never could feel that special, dejavu-like brief moments of magic...
Then, one time, when I was busily immersed among the crowd of Christmas shoppers in a supermarket, I GOT IT BACK! Yes, even for a brief moment, less than a minute perhaps, I stopped and there it was, immersing me with what could have been the invisible Christmas spirit powder dust for grown-ups like me, leaving me with a fresh, invigorating energy that lasted me more rounds of gift-shopping for those several long commutes with loads of Christmas shopping bags, yet I feel like a super hero.
That moment was a sort of an epiphany for me, and greatly redefined my views about Christmas shopping. And whenever I feel like recapturing that old Christmas morning magic I had as a child, I just go shopping (even if it is not Christmas, even if only to feel and smell that charmed air of people and products melding together in a sea of polished shopping mall floors) and for once, I appreciate this very welcome "peace on Earth, goodwill to men" drive that regular consumerism would morphed into come Christmas time.
That is why, I strongly advocate and promote the NO SCRIMPING ON CHRISTMAS cause. And I invite you to join me. I don't mean you splurge everything on Christmas shopping, of course not! Your common sense surely knows "everything in moderation" is good all the time, for anything. What I mean simply is:
It's Christmastime! Share a bit more, give a bit more, buy a bit (okay, a lot) more, and spread love and cheer as much as you can and make more children keep those magical Christmas morning feelings a lot longer! Could be the reason why there is that "feeling like a super hero" air to that.
I came up with this piece because I feel that as a self-proclaimed Independent Consumer talking my head and heart to all of you, guys, I have a responsibility to deflate a pervading twisted view about Christmas and consumerism.
There are those people who feel that this is the season of waste, of wanton splurging, of evil, evil consumerism. And they refuse to jump the bandwagon of buying and buying for Christmas. "Christmas is consumer exploitation! Christmas is too commercialized! And I don't blame them. Okay, I blame them a bit for not being smart, analytical and independent enough to be in control of their consumer activities, Christmas or not. And I blame the overly kick-ass hardselling tactics of some "marketers" that hype the "purchasing" side of Christmas over the real motive of why people should buy for others (and for themselves) especially during the yuletide season.
Heck! a P245,000 plasma TV at 0% interest as the "perfect gift for the family that no perfect dad should miss??? Or those 18-carat diamonds that wives and girlfriends should get for Christmas, and nothing less, because women deserve only the best??? Hah!!! How painfully materialistic, pressure-overt and just plain dumb. These kinds of shameless Christmas marketing had become so blatant and a lot of people are really turned off year after year, hence the "Christmas shopping is evil" stance of some of our folks out there.
Buy, not because those shameless Christmas marketers tell you to do so, but buy because you think that little cuddly teddy bear will make little Nicole feel more warmly tucked in at night; grab that dog tag necklace-and-bracelet pair for Nicko's coming-of-age image experimentations which is so important to a fifth grader like him; bag that flashlight-fan-stereo combo for old Dad to add to his stack of shiny, unused OldDad gadgets in his room; wrap up that luscious red tablecloth for Mom to use during the family Media Noche, and get dozens of those glow-in-the-dark popsicles, starter storybooks, stick-on nail polishes, bead boxes, leaping bunnies, and so, so, so many little more gifts that would add up to clutter a year after for friends and even strangers. And by all means, if you can conveniently afford it, save up for many months to buy 82-year old gramma and grampa that nice, widescreen plasma TV for better, more enjoyable soap opera viewing to delight them in the slowly dwindling afternoons of their beautiful lives together. Who cares? And in all your gift buying choices, think of what small, sensible price and practicality to pay in exchange for those precious moments when little eyes open up with delight, wrinkled hands become excited, confusions turn into refreshing ideas, and weary hearts (even yours) are cheered.

Be the cool, hip and informed Independent Consumer that you are with THE NO SCRIMPING ON CHRISTMAS CAUSE - Care to join me?




